Staying Balanced in a World That Feels Unsteady
Finding peace, resilience, and grounded strength during global trauma
It’s hard to scroll the news or social media without feeling the weight of the world. Wars, natural disasters, economic instability, political tension, community violence—layer upon layer of collective trauma can leave us feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and emotionally exhausted.
Even if the events aren’t happening in your backyard, your nervous system doesn’t always know the difference. The body absorbs what the eyes see and the ears hear. Over time, constant exposure to distressing information can create what psychologists call vicarious trauma—emotional strain from witnessing suffering, even at a distance.
If you’re feeling heavy right now, you’re not weak. You’re human.
The good news? You can care deeply about the world and still protect your peace. You can stay informed without being consumed. You can remain compassionate without burning out.
Here’s how to stay balanced during hard seasons.
1. Guard Your Nervous System/ In other words “Guard your Heart- Proverbs 4:23”
Your nervous system was not designed for 24/7 breaking news.
When you consume traumatic content continuously, your body may shift into a chronic stress state—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. Over time, this can lead to:
- Sleep disruption
- Digestive issues
- Increased anxiety
- Irritability
- Emotional numbness
Practical steps:
- Set specific times to check the news (once or twice a day).
- Avoid doom-scrolling before bed.
- Replace one news check with a grounding practice (deep breathing, stretching, prayer, or a short walk).
Balance awareness with boundaries.
2. Come Back to What You Can Control- Use your power, love and self-control provided by the Holy Spirit that lives in you.
Global events are often outside our personal control. When the world feels chaotic, narrow your focus on Jesus.
Ask yourself:
- What is within my reach today?
- Who can I support right now?
- What small action would align with my values?
- Pray for wisdom and peace
Maybe it’s donating, volunteering, checking in on a friend, supporting a local farmer, or simply raising compassionate children. Small, tangible action restores a sense of agency.
You don’t have to solve the world to make a difference.
3. Stay Rooted in Your Body
Trauma lives in the body—not just in the mind.
To stay balanced, you need embodied practices that regulate your stress response:
- Slow breathing (inhale 4, exhale 6)
- Strength training or walking
- Time outdoors
- Nourishing whole foods
- Adequate sleep
- Keep your hygiene practices steady
- Read scriptures like Psalm 91 out loud
- Put calming praise and worship music on.
- Have a bath
- Allow for tears to fall as they are one of thew ways the body cleanses itself from grieve.
- Acknowledge the pain felt to someone trust worthy- If no one near, call a help line, there’s no shame in needing to talk. We all do.
When your body feels stable, your thoughts follow.
If you’ve already built habits around physical resilience—farming, fitness, whole foods, time outside—lean into them. Hard seasons are not the time to abandon what keeps you strong.
4. Cultivate Safe Connection
Isolation magnifies fear.
Hard seasons require community—real, grounded, safe community. Not just online commentary, but genuine human presence.
- Share meals.
- Pray together.
- Have honest conversations.
- Limit reactive debate and choose meaningful dialogue.
- Allow for other peoples grieve as a way of support of what you feel and be there for someone else experiencing grief.
- Remember when you feel alone, you aren’t. Jesus is with you always and is close to the broken hearted. He knows the pain because it also pains Him. He was left alone in the hardest thing anyone would have to go through, trust me, He knows your pain and you are never alone.
Connection reminds your nervous system that you are not alone.
5. Hold Grief Without Losing Hope
It is okay to grieve what’s happening in the world.
You can:
- Pray for peace.
- Sit with sadness.
- Take your time.
And still choose hope.
Hope is not denial. It is disciplined vision.
It’s the decision to believe that even in darkness, goodness still exists—kindness still spreads—healing is still possible.
Hard seasons refine us. They clarify our values. They strengthen our resilience. They remind us what truly matters.
6. Anchor in Faith and Meaning
During collective trauma, people instinctively look for something solid to stand on.
Whether your anchor is faith in God, deep spiritual practice, service to others, or a strong personal mission—root yourself there.
When everything feels unstable, return to:
- Gratitude
- Scripture from the Holy Bible
- Journaling
- Quiet reflection
- Purpose-driven action
- Rest and choose to believe in God’s power to complete good work in the midst of turmoil.
Inner stability does not come from perfect circumstances. It comes from a steady foundation.
7. Protect Joy Without Guilt
One of the most common responses to global trauma is survivor’s guilt:
“How can I feel joy when others are suffering?”
But joy is not disrespect. Joy is fuel.
Laughing with your children.
Harvesting food.
Celebrating milestones.
Building strength in the gym.
Creating art.
These acts don’t diminish suffering—they remind the world that life continues.
Choosing joy is an act of quiet resistance against despair. God says in Ecclesiastes that there is a time for everything under the sun and this time on earth is short but we who believe in Jesus Christ will live forever with him in a perfect place together and it will be beyond amazing and we will forget about all the terrible here. Just the thought of that brings me joy in any storm.
8. Remember: Seasons Change
History shows us that humanity moves through cycles of conflict, rebuilding, hardship, and renewal.
This season will not last forever.
You may not control the headlines.
But you can control:
- Your habits
- Your home
- Your health
- Your heart posture
Stay steady.
Stay grounded.
Stay disciplined in hope.
Final Thoughts
You don’t have to carry the whole world on your shoulders.
Care deeply.
Act wisely.
Protect your peace.
Strengthen your body.
Nourish your spirit.
Love your people well.
Hard seasons reveal what we’re built on.
Let this one build you—not break you.
I am praying for you. If you need support or you are feeling alone on your faith journey you are welcome to join my zoom meetings. Just go to the RISE page and join my newsletter where we are doing weekly prayer together. You are never alone and we all feel this heavy season. May the peace of God come upon you as you finish reading this post. Jesus loves you.
